Becoming Who You’re Meant to Be — Soft, Smart, Sacred.
Your story isn’t random. It’s a thread & every thread leads you home.
Becoming (Book / Memoir)
It starts with Becoming.
My memoir is more than words on a page — it’s a divine blueprint of soft power, survival, and sovereignty. This is where the journey begins.
🌸 The Pink Thread Collective
The Pink Thread is where clarity and community meet. It’s a free space to breathe, reflect, and connect with others who are also rebuilding — from trauma, from transition, from the quiet chaos of everyday life.
“Healing doesn't happen in isolation.” — N. Thomas
Inside, you’ll find:
Bi-weekly live calls for real conversation, not just curated posts.
Mentorship threads (Big Sister/Little Sister) for guidance that feels human.
Shared resources — from job clarity to wellness tools to financial tips.
Events and spaces that remind you you’re not alone in this work.
This is not a program you pay to enter. It’s a community you step into — where trust, softness, and power get woven together.
🖋Mirror Talks with Neria
See yourself clearly.
Sometimes the next step comes when someone holds the mirror steady for you. Mirror Talks are private sessions where clarity meets compassion.
🌀 Substack: My Writing Home
Where story meets science.
Inside my Substack, you’ll find:
Brain Hacks → my science work: psychology, habits, PhD research translated into real life.
Becoming (expanded) → memoir chapters, behind-the-scenes reflections, raw downloads.
Essays & series → cultural, spiritual, and erotic thought pieces (like The Architecture of Black Intimacy).
Softness made tangible.
Soon, you’ll be able to live inside the softness — silk PJs, wraps, and corsets.
Jupiter’s Landing is body, legacy, and softness woven together.
🌹 Queen’s FAQ
This is for those looking for clarity & ready to do the work once you find it.
What do you actually do? 🧵
I help women rebuild from the root. Whether it’s your energy, your business, your locs, or your sense of self—I guide you back to the version of you that knows exactly what she needs. With truth, tenderness, and a little tough love, I’ll walk you home to yourself: calm & clear.
🌸 What is The Pink Thread?
It’s a free online sanctuary where woman meet live once a month, set a theme, and grow. No fluff. No ego. Just women thriving through connection, remembering who they are, and moving different.
Can I talk to you 1:1? 💬
Yes—but not in every lane. I’m no longer accepting new hair clients for maintenance. Life coaching, business guidance, master loctician trainings & digital tools, and BFF applications (coming soon) are all available above.
If it doesn’t fall into one of those categories, it doesn’t apply. If it’s aligned, go back up.
🪮 I’m a new loctician. Can I get certified by you?
Yes. I offer 1:1 Master Loctician Training year around where I teach—from my hands to yours. You’ll learn technique, presence, and what it means to honor the crown.
I need a loctician. Will you take me? 🙅🏾♀️
Not currently. You can submit a crown review request or get connected to a loctician I’ve trained. My work is legacy-based and my locticians come highly recommended.
📬 How do I stay in your orbit?
Step into my world. My email list is the inner circle—where the quiet drops load live. Updates, random gifts, special invitations, and reminders that you were never meant to float alone.
🚧 Something not working?
You didn’t do anything wrong. This space is still being threaded together. If you run into a broken link or unfinished path, don’t panic—use contact below.
Timely responses aren’t guaranteed, but they’re received with care.
